Mrs Amir :)

Alhamdulillah and thanks to all family members + extended too :p..and to all frenz that supported & wished us. Thanks a million again

27 Mac- Friday
I've been on fever (mild) & flu..this is my 3rd day (blamed choc for this). Was trying hard to recovered so i can pull through tomorrow's. Overall, ok as i managed to controlled the tonsils except for the flu. When it's dawn, relatives are slowly knocking on the door. It's kecoh obviously. But it's fun. Nothing much basically as all the cooking were ordered from my aunty at Keramat. So when its about 10plus, masa untuk pakai inai. The blind guided the blind..haha.My aunty rabun but thanks to all her effort memakaikan inai di jari2 ku. But sadly, after almost 3hrs on it, the inai is not that strikes. They sad it's maybe because on my blood *ada petua mengatakan nak pakai inak kene tgk darah kite gak. so that's why some ppl pakai inai it turn out nice & red but not mine- it turnes to orangish* anyway, it's just for this solemnization, will have to try harder for the reception next week. The clock ticking..it's 4am. Gosh!! i can't sleep. well i can but those aunties kat luar tu they just chats continuously , with my mom too. Conclusion, i slept for only 2hrs before woke up at 7am.

28 mac- saturday, the day
Kak shaz, my make up artist came about 740am. Breakfast done. It took almost 2 hrs plus to made myself look gorgeous..hihi. Then it's time for us heading to the Masjid BUkit Indah. Amir's and family are there. Waited patiently.hihi. Then after the necessary ceramah done by tok kadi, its the moment for amir to melafazkan akad. yes he did it with only selafaz. Alhamdulillah. Good job sayang :) We are officially a husband & wife

Conclusion
To be frank, i am certainly in a shocked of my status currently. I am someone's wife. Please wake me up ppl :). After all we've been thru, we have come to this far. I like it coz i can hang out with my hubby all the time - need to practice of using hubby now on *wink*. I can sense that all the burden were slight gone, semua telah dihalalkan :) . I need to adjust myself on this new relationship, with extended family members, my behavior towards my hubby and the community etc. Need to start learn on cooking too. How i wish our house is ready so we can have our own time together, just the 2 of us. Well, have to pray hard for that. Moga rezeki & tuah will be on our side.

with sekali lafaz je

with his mom

myhantaran for him

my bling2

menantu vs mertua

2 days more

wohooo..it's 2 days more and i'm officially amir's wife
peoples been asking..how was your feeling towards?your preps? bla bla

my answers are :

I'm thrilled and looking forward to it *my nikah is this saturday*..frankly i would say that i am not that nervous..in fact my days went thru smoothly, macam hari2 biase..maybe esok i would feel the excitement :)

Will be officially on Al starting tomorrow, a bit tensed now coz i'm having slight fever and flu *ergh, hate that*..nose blocked!! blame choclates for this... my tonsils were part of this caused too.
ee please go away coz my big day is soonnnn

So-called my hen's nite

Date : 21 Mac 2009
Venue : Chestnut Bistro, Ampang
Time : 730pm onwards
Remarks : Thanks to my boss for organized this ; Thanks to those ladies who turned up this despite those who made last minit cancelled (as usual) and Thanks to the rest of the guys


So called my hen's nite done by my boss, supposed to be 15gals attended but due to so many reasons..some could not make it. But the most unaccepted where few just cancelled last minute and few who don't even answered my call. Unacceptable. and for some who i have not invited for this, definitely there's a reason behind that. I would love to invite all of ya but due to some circumstances, i have to obliged.

It was simple dinner. come. eat.chit chatting. exchange cards & stories.off to Aloha. off to home.very simple
Foods was nice. on portugese meals. Thanks to Harry for making this happened. Eventho it was such a small dinner but i had fun thou. Really appreciates all of ya efforts.

Dinner finished about 1030pm, few of us heading to Aloha. There are one nice Thai band, as per my boss. Quite packed with most of Chinese. Ordered drinks. But would agreed that the band was superb. Then later Amir join.for 3-4 shots then we're heading home. Truly amazed on the traffic outside. I dunno where are all these cards heading to? KL, a city of lights & entertainment
Pictures has been update at FB (what the heck it took almost 15mins to complete?)

few of pics been posted here and not FB due to some reason..

OMG, in less than a week i will be Amir's wife !!!!

thanks guys

venue

budak kecik

ladies, THANKS !!

Sepetang di Tradispa

Since lagi few weeks je nak kawin kan..barula nak memanjakan diri ke spa.
Buang segala lemak/kotoran yang ada..sebagai persiapan. Eventho i think it's quite early, but it's ok coz i dun have much time. Next weekend pun ade plan

Took me couple of days to searched this. First thought of going to Hotel Istana since being their member so dapatla 25% off , but the cheapest one pun still about RM100 for an hour, a bit neglected thou. then Google kat Novotel Hotel, been there n done the free massage before. So thot nak kesana but the website under construction..so sampaila terlupa. Then baru teringat kan Cintasari spa kat ampang ni (about 15mins from myhse). check this out

http://cintasari.com/home.html

Once entered the website, you've been entertained with the Balinese music as a background
I've booked for Lovely pakej- foot bath, massage (1hr), mandi lulur, tea - 2hrs @ RM150/pax
This is the promotion for March. I think every month diorang ade promo, so do get updated la.

1. Sampai spa pukul 330 sharp..hujan pulak tuh non-stop. Weather a bit strange lately. Once sampai, tgk macam spa tu penuh with customer.Hot place eventho hujan..huhu. Banyak betul orang pegi spa..hehe. The service was not like other spa that i have visited in the hotels before..ni staff pun semua melayu. Ala2 Bali la kan. I was directed to my room at 3.45pm. Changed clothes by wearing their bathrobe. But yang peliknya there is no underwear were given. Other spa's will give u a disposable underwear and shower cap (if necessary)..obviously we are to shy to be naked rite?But when i've asked, answers given that my package was inclusive of full body scrub and massage. Anyway, not to create a havoc..i silently nodded.

2. Acara massage selama sejam dimulakan. The oil that been used smells good..macam bau laici.haha. Head to toe, front and back for almost an hour. Followed by milk scrub about half an hour then setelah dibiarkan selama 5 minit, i'm heading to the bathroom untuk mandi lulur dengan susu kambing. Dlm bath tub dah tersedia susu kambing with rose petals everywhere. Light was purposedly a bit dimmed utk memberikan suasana tenang. Have it for 15 mins then i'm done.

3. Lat but not least, disediakan teh halia for inner cleansing. Overall i would rate 6 out of 10. It's my first time anyway..i would recommend them to my friends. Tapi sampai esok pun I still terasa lenguh2 at certain parts of my body..maybe mybody ni banyak angin kan :)

I would still love to visit the spa that hotels provided coz somehow i think that they are still the appropriate and they do have all the ways & procedures correctly. Maybe a bit bias as i'm a hotelier too but that's based on my experiences being in this industry. If anyone out there wanna try to get indulge with the massage in Hotel Istana, gimme a buzz as i own the privilege of being their member :)

ruang membaca & menunggu

reception area

ruang menunggu sambil boleh tgk AF&.haha.
kat bawah tu ade semua their products

landskap dgn bunyi air untuk menberikan suasana damai

Sneak preview 2

Yo ppl, sorry for the late entry again
caught up with something lately

here's the latest update on my wedding marched..less that 2 weeks to go

On the weekend on past 2 weeks, Sunday, 8 Mac- decided that i should get out from the house to look for some decorations. Merely for the flower gals baskets and for the souvenir's basket. Went out with a fren that has some expertise in the wedding planner, we barged into the train and all the way to Sogo. It was hot & humid . But we both gagahkan jua. Hoop to one and another shops & complexes, target utk mencari deco stuffs & so-called veil/shawl for my nikah. Honestly, padan muka aku jugak coz color for my kain tu agak susah utk di cari & di match kan with those yg ready made. But..we did found it..similar la. On the deco, there's no prob on that as we managed to find but with some of my mix n match skills, it will do.

with my skills

9 mac- Maulidul rasul - hari keputeraan baginda nabi Muhammad SAW.
Thought of just lazing at home with nuthing much in mind. But tetiba received a call from my future MIL (mother in law) asking me to joined lenny & her at Pavy. Without much hesitation, i surely say YES. basically, amir still owed me one thing which is a shoe for my wedding. But before that, both of them had their shopping spree before they off to US on May for 2 weeks (siapa ckp rakyat Msia effected by the economic crisis?-haha) Frankly, i was bit static by looking the way they shopped. scary. i mean, ofcoz it's more on luxury items. Hopefully my rezeki pun macam diorang one day, Insya Allah

Finally, the host has done some scouting for my shoe. Jarang aku dgr brand ni but somehow i think it has been in the market for quite sometimes, or maybe it was me yg kinda backdated lately..haha. nak tgk my wedding shoe...?

Chairmain shoe, price? heheheh

Once done all the shopping, it's makan time. mama treat us for japanese food at Pavy. mama decided to head off to KLCC to scout for her jeans utk di pakai di US later and her fav's was Marks & Spencer. Bought the one that she likes, then Lenny tried to pursued mama to beli sweater at Zara..haha. But mama tengok macam tu je and said " maybe next month la plak. ni dah blanje byk"..aku hanya mampu tersenyum..dah dapat my kasut, cukupla kan :)

Pantang larang bakal pengantin baru

Since it's about 3 weeks to go for my nikah..recently heard few ppls was telling me about this pantang larang. Bila dah few orang yg bertanye sure pelik and myself pun nak tau about it. Century ago yes ini dinamakan petua zaman dulu..but it's an IT world now. zaman dah berubah..adakah ianya masih dipraktikkan?

Let's check out what are the do's and don't _______________________________________________________

APAKAH anda sudah bertemu pasangan yang serasi dengan diri anda?

Bagi yang bertunang atau bakal bergelar raja sehari, ada banyak pantang larang yang harus diikuti.

Dalam masyarakat Melayu, sebaik ditetapkan hari perkahwinan, bermakna bermulalah pantang larang buat bakal mempelai itu.

Apa yang ditetapkan harus diikuti demi kebaikan diri mereka. Orang Melayu yang terkenal dengan adat resamnya yang tinggi mempunyai amalan tertentu untuk kebaikan semua pihak.

Ia bukanlah menjadi kewajipan tetapi satu budaya masyarakat Melayu. Walaupun bakal pengantin masa kini jarang mengamalkan petua itu, tidak rugi jika ia diikuti.

Cuba selami betul-betul supaya anda dapat mendalaminya. Jika anda merasakan ia bersesuaian, mungkin anda bersetuju dengan apa yang dikemukakan. Jika sebaliknya, abaikan saja.

Jangan keluar dengan pasangan selama 40 hari sebelum diijab kabul untuk mengelakkan tohmahan masyarakat. Selain itu ia bertujuan untuk mengawal nafsu. Ia juga untuk menimbulkan perasaan rindu dendam. Perasaan yang timbul akan membuatkan wajah pengantin lebih berseri.- i still seeing amir lately due to duties to settled..how-lah?

Jangan tidur di rumah orang takut terkena ilmu. Ia juga adalah untuk menjaga nama baik keluarga.

Jangan bebas keluar ke mana-mana kerana takut disantau oleh mereka yang mempunyai niat tidak baik- still doing it due to unfinish business

Jangan makan nasi dengan gulai berkuah beberapa bulan sebelum naik pelamin bagi mengelakkan perut buncit.

Elakkan makan ulam yang berbau busuk seperti petai dan jering.

Jangan bercermin terutama selepas Maghrib ke atas bagi mengelak diri dari terkena sihir.

Jangan membuang air kecil dan air besar serentak di dalam air contohnya dalam sungai, kolah kerana ia boleh melemahkan organ seks.

Elakkan minum air mengandungi gas kerana ia mempunyai gula dan gas yang tinggi dan boleh menyebabkan kencing manis - i am beside skang musim orang sakit & demam

Kurangkan makan makanan yang manis kerana jika terkena kencing manis, lelaki akan menghadapi masalah ketika bersama- just ate cheesecake for breakfast..:)

Elakkan mandi malam kerana tidak elok untuk sendi-sendi - agreed

Kawal makan iaitu sekali makan setiap hari (mengikut sesetengah adat)- cannot. i eat like madness

Kaum lelaki elakkan memakai seluar dalam yang ketat pada waktu malam dan tidur meniarap kerana tidak bagus untuk organ seks kerana darah tidak mengalir.

Elakkan terlalu banyak makan makanan laut kerana ia mengandungi banyak toksid.

Tiga bulan sebelum berkahwin, mula membuat urutan supaya pengantin mempunyai tenaga yang cukup sebagai persiapan- tak buat coz tak sempat. in 2wks time baru nak pegi spa

Amalkan makan telur ayam kampung dua kali seminggu yang dicampur madu dan lada hitam yang ditumbuk untuk menambah tenaga- so not

Bagi mereka yang banyak angin, minum air halia untuk membuang angin.

Belajar ilmu rumah tangga daripada orang yang berpengalaman dan sudah berkahwin tentang rahsia memikat isteri supaya rumah tangga aman dan damai.

Jangan memuaskan nafsu dengan cara sendiri

Cukupkan waktu tidur tujuh hingga lapan jam sehari- trying

Elakkan minum minuman keras dan merokok.- no no

Elakkan terkena cahaya matahari kerana dikhuatiri hitam dan tidak berseri pada hari perkahwinan.- i tried..sometimes need sunshine

Elakkan minum air soya kerana ia sejuk dan tidak elok untuk alat kelamin.

Amalkan makan jamu supaya malam pengantin tidak mengecewakan- takleh blah mkn jamu

Banyakkan baca surah-surah bagi mengelakkan gangguan syaitan. Sentiasa mengingati Allah.

Jangan makan sebebas-bebasnya kerana ketika ini sistem dalaman tidak stabil- saya mkn hentamje..smua pun mkn. nak berisikan lagi bdn yg sekeping ni

Jangan terlalu terdedah kepada keluarga lelaki (simpan diri)- since past 3 mths dah mcmni

Jangan berembun atau keluar malam bagi mengelak unsur jahat- trying to be a good gal

Jangan bercelak serta memotong rambut seminggu sebelum ijab kabul- just trim hair semlm..takpe 3 weeks to go

Jika sudah nikah gantung tidak boleh bersama.

Selepas nikah mesti ada peneman tidur sebelum bersama. Ia bertujuan menghangatkan lagi kemesraan.

Bilik lelaki atau wanita jangan dikosongkan. Mesti ada orang atau ahli keluarga terdekat tidur di dalam bagi mengelak daripada dikhianati.

Jangan buat kerja yang berat kerana apabila pengantin membuat kerja berat, dia akan berasa penat dan mudah terjadinya gangguan emosi- so true

Jaga pertuturan agar tidak menimbulkan rasa sakit hati.

Elakkan makan dan minum seperti sayur bersifat sejuk seperti kangkung, bayam, timun, jambu batu dan air kelapa agar muka nampak segar.

Jangan cukur kening ditakuti akan menghilangkan seri muka- ok will not do that

Sebelum menjadi pengantin, katil kelamin tidak boleh ditiduri oleh pengantin kerana tidak manis.

Lempar baju di atas bumbung rumah tanpa diketahui orang lain bagi mengelak hujan turun ketika majlis berlangsung.

Dilarang memandang cermin ketika disolek kerana dikhuatiri hilang seri.

Kedua pengantin dilarang bercakap ketika bersanding kerana kurang manis dipandang tetamu.- happens all the time kan

Jangan makan leher ayam nanti dikhuatiri kepala senget masa bersanding.

Dilarang membuang alis kerana perbuatan tersebut akan menghilangkan seri wajah buat pengantin lelaki.

Elakkan keluar rumah tanpa tujuan menjelang perkahwinan dikhuatiri bakal pengantin mengalami kemalangan jika berada di luar- patutla byk yang berkata begini padaku

Happy learning