Birthday dan swimming pool

Both combinations yang sangat menarik perhatian bebudak 

kalini birthday zara. cucu kepada anak kakza (sariza)
heh mudanya dah title cucu ye. heheh nanny muda yang masih lagi jadi crew

location wise was good coz nearby pool haha. and the pool ain't the normal pool ye
it has slides, air hujan bagai and lotsa trees so redup sket and animals figures
(it was in my IG)


meantime, it also a mini SCFM gath hahahah coz yang datang byk from geng scfm je. anyway we enjoyed ourself. food was yums
Sofia the first as usual in a center of attention where everyone geram with her chunky thigh
and siap one of my friend really bite her till nangis, geram sangat katanye. lol

the birthday girl and cake

ni geng madlopa

i so love this pic. nak frame it

geng scfm

SCFM sisterhood movie day outing

and sooooooooo we're back to reality
kerja kerja sampai lebammmmmmm. kerja 3 days more and weekend again

i wish to be a SAHM la..perhaps soon? *ok cut off the daydreaming for now*

we decided to watch abam aaron and lisa by watching Suamiku, Perfect 10
ya sounds sooo poyo kan *like what my husband said when he saw i forwarded him the poster*
hahha yeah we do have our own poster for this time outing

they chose GSC at Midvalley. Gosh its been ages since my last movie. now all so canggih, purchased tickets online, to redeem just scan the bar code upon entrance and voila!
this supposed to be a mommies outing je but end up each of us brings our own toddler
its 5 moms and only najua bring over her double A girls
i doubt all of them understand about this movie hahah but who cares? as long mommies fulfilled their needs.
As expected, my HM can't even sit for 15mins. by that time, she was restless and started to kacau me.
End up she played with Iman at the side stairs. As long korang bahagia la anak

The movie? ratings 3/5
reason being : too complicated. Hanged. i can't understand the story plots
also, too much makeups for the actresses beside than Lisa. She had a natural bare face which i like


Next stop, to maaakannnnn.
we just choose Delicious at the main entrance. Kids had bit of spaces to play and make noise -__-
chit chat, eat eat, gossip here and there and its about 5pm
wah, we really had loong day at MV. crowds are everywhere which mostly are chinese as they need to shop for their upcoming CNY
i see red everywhere. but NOT red money *sigh* haha

Useful FB support page for mommies

i would like to share some of the useful links/Fb page/groups that you can find and join related to pregnancy/parenting/breastfeeding/caesarean groups etc

You see, when you become a first time mommy, you wanna find more info on pregnancy. The do's and don't etc
Then you tend to find info on delivery. On what are the risk of overdue? What is the natural inducer? A good way/why it's good to have a natural birth etc
Next, when you have delivered your baby, you have a question of breastfeeding/parenting/baby sleeping pattern etc

And so the questions and curiosity continues
It's good to learn and as we are practising/becoming a good mother/parents, we must learn

So do i. While i'm still learning to feed myself with so much new info and understands jargon related to all above, i am glad that i have friends who are willing to share with me
And so, below is the groups that i have joined, which i think could benefits some of you


Secret Club for Mommies -  click here SCFM 
You can ask basically about anything, as specified in the groups pinned post. Mostly related to parenting etc

The Breastfeeding Advocates Network - click here TBAN
mostly related to breastfeeding - on what good supplements etc

The Gentle Birth Group - click here GBG
If you're planning to learn and have a gentle birth delivery and learn so many new things on delivery, they have a good group support. There are also doctors in this group

ICAN Malaysia/VBAC support - click here
Eversince my 2nd pregnancy i had a c-sect, i started to joined this group with regards VBAC (vagina birth after caesarean). Learn more about c-sect here. There's also doctors in here

Solid/Semisolid Food for your baby - click here
Starting to feed food to your child? to get more recipes? here here


The above were to name a few. They even have few groups for each. You can try search and look for it at the FB. I can say that they are actually quite a good support groups that help mommies out there.
You'll be surprisingly amazed on how advance and good those mommies in each group.
They are well informed and have such a high spirits and energy!

Get yourself well informed too!

Nesting at home and Ramadhan story

I have become a penguin mother now
resting and taking my days off from work is such a bliss
my first week off was a relieved, it's like a revenge throughout all my hardwork *cough* and for being in the office for doing nothing *well ppl there tend to ignore me, watodo*
So my routine basically, woke up in the morning, preparing HM for school, then her ayah will send her off then i'm back to sleep *or maybe breakfast dulu bagi kenyang before tido balik* hahahaaaaa

While i volunteer to fetch HM from school in the evening so at least i can have bit of exercise and out from home but it must be before the traffic started
House chores is something that i do everyday, from cleaning, vacuuming, laundry, get ready stuffs for baby etc

I also had the opportunity to join my SAHM gang/ladies for some activities. We've had a breakfast gathering together after sending off our kids to school, went for lunch that dragged to teatime at Wangsa walk (for the UK clans who stayed nearby wangsa maju/setiawangsa/ulu kelang)..catch up on pregnancy issues (since there are 3 of us in the line waiting turn, minus Amy who has popped), gossips at SCFM, parenting, family matters etc. We've shared and exchange info's together. That's the beauty of having a Mommy's club ..shheesh

Comes to the 2nd week where the fasting month is approaching, i had slow down a bit. Plus my tummy is getting heavier day by day that restricted me from walking too much. Continued fetching HM from school but then i realize with the sunny hot weather (blame the El Nino) i find it lazy to go out. I constantly need a/c 24/7 .. Plus sitting too long at one spot has given me this uncomfy feelings and i'm easily tired lately
So i am no more fetching HM ever since the Ramadhan started. I don't have  reason to go out. 
I am such a lazy bummer now -____-

For this time Ramadhan, i am trying and doing my best to puasa but being a preggy mom, i have this privileged given by Allah SWT that i can skip from puasa (it's called rukhsah). So as of today, i think we have been puasa for almost 8/9 days and i managed to achieved 5days. i find  that i easily get dehydrated and so i puasa on alternate days now. Man, twas not easy. I felt thirsty more than the hunger feeling
May Allah bless all of us in this holy month and may we pull through with our ibadah puasa in this hot weather ..Phiew

what else? i'm in anticipation to have the baby
Tho i have a difficulties to sleep now *this baby is so active when comes to midnight that i have changed my sleeping pattern too*
not complaining but i did sometimes (slap my face) when the pain is unbearable and when my BH has become more frequent now, and Oh the tightening too
these that i have to go through and trust me, your life will totally change when the baby has arrives 

8th SCFM Gath

blog dah lama tak di-update. sorry i am so busy travelling msia uolls

mommies that joined 

part of ajk for the kemas time

This 8th scfm (secret club for mommies) gath was held 9mac2013 at Villa wangsamas multi purpose hall

SCFM is a club for mommies who wants to share experiences/add a knowledge  in parenting, babies, rumahtangga, tips, dos and donts while pregnant and lots more

in here too, we gotta meet new friends from cyber onto real world by attending the gathering that we have. only open to newlywedd and female! so mom-to-be is also welcome

and so i am the volunteer AJK for exchg gift. This time our total AJKs was up to 8/9pax

agenda are :

registration

exchange gifts (among mommies)

hit the pinata (for kids)

voting games (for mums, dads, kiddo)

coloring contest

pot luck meals session

birthday celebration- jan to march kiddos

As you can see, the otai's from SCFM (who have joined at earlier stage, back in 2011) have our own scfm t-shirt. so newbies you gotta wait till we open the order

beside bonding and meeting new mommies,kids and daddies have met their new friends too. 

food

based on pot luck

exchg gift counter 

the winner for coloring contest

HM spotted!

registration counter

the GMMJ group 

deco superbly done by our volunteer deco ajk

hit the pinata time

cake cutting

alana won the coloring too

to some of my friends who has been in this club, we shared info kan. but whatever happen/written in there i hope to stay in the SCFM ONLY!