We are 5 years today!

Happy 5th Anniversary to us!!

literally it's our 7th years together as we took almost 2 yrs to known each other and decided to end it with an official relationship (it's more to 1 and half yrs la)

To refresh the old memories, we knew each other through friends. Well, we have  same cycle of friends (small world) and it was during that time that i love to spent times with my bunch of single friends and just don't think about serious relationship (obviously i've been trying hard after been dumped from my monkey love.uh-oh -____- )

getting know other guys and was hoping to get over the stupid a** ex-bf is such an immature me (now baru realize that. lol) but i don't regret that as i've met quite few decent and interesting guys that moment

we learnt from mistake kan. lol

when i taught that i almost give up and just strolling my life and enjoy with my friends then i met my husband. He is such a quite-type-of-person (he still, unlike me) but had a good observation

He got my no and YM ID chat and we had a chat. Carrying on life as friends (duhh) and did so much activities together which literally made us getting close till the day he popped that "special" question of me becoming his special GF (awws)

Then another new phase to continue and its getting serious where we talked about marriage
stuff etc. So i guess both of us are ready for it

a day before we got engaged

celebrating his birthday on 2008

i haven't figure out that i am conceived at this trip to Cameron. one of our usual honeymoon
 activities  on Nov 2009

celebrating his birthday 

our first honeymoon trip on July 2009

11th May 2008, we engaged for less than a year and on 28th March 2009, we were officially husband and wife. Solemnization were at Bukit Indah Mosque, witnessed by both family members and closed friends. A week later, 3-4 April 2009, we had our reception both at me and his place. 

And today we are at our 5th year, passing one stage in married life. i know there's more to come but i hope we'll be able to go through the ups and downs together and cherish every moment. 

and a baby is coming in a few months. be prepared 

at bali celebrating our 1st anni 2010 - 6mo preggy

at New Zealand 2011 - celebrating our 2nd anni with HM around 10mo

3rd anni at Redang Island

4th Anni 2013 celebrated at Krabi 

Where we will be celebrating our 5th anniversary? Tunnggguuu ",)

the month full of love and joyous

fuhh, let's try to put all story into one

Alhamdulillah, February has been a good month so far. penuh rezeki and kesyukuran
syukur syukur

my 1st BIL is married again (new wife) and it's all started with his nikah ceremony on 8Feb at melawati (yes nasib nearby je, in fact the new wife house is nearby also from the old wife, heh)
it was a simple wedding. good to met all the relatives again (side amir)

Then the 9th Feb, there's a huge gathering of Hj Hashim clan at Seri melayu Restaurant (husband side). Approx 500+paxs filling the hall. History of the oyang, family tree, and lucky draws were part in the itinerary, plus a must do photography session. smua jenis cam-whoring je mesti hidup

hj hashim history & family tree book. i'm in the 3rd generation

sunday comes, 10th Feb. majlis kenduri side pompuan at melawati. eat eat and eat and take pictures. that's what we did. and so the end on 3days wearing baju kurung continuously

finished all that, panik kejap coz haven't do any packing for our pangkor trip (as if us who get married and next day off to pangkor for honeymoon, haha) this time there were 5 families joined  so the more the merrier. i'm gonna post separately on that

then kan, last saturday, was the kenduri sambut menantu
was just a close one la, about 300paxs je invited. and with that we thought the event was over. finally kan

but NOT

we knew the fact that mama's (my MIL)birthday was yesterday, 17th feb so we decided earlier to have a dinner that night to celebrate, then later we heard that my 2nd BIL's wife has popped on the same date gak and it's the first grandson in the family. Wah, double celebrationla
As usual, me getting excited as if i yang beranak. so nampak sgt rindu nak ada baby lagikan.
yes, we're trying dah just belum melekat. so wait if there's any good news from me later2 ke

most pics up were from my instagram. And yes, pls follow me at 3mmil IG ID

Finally, Asya + Adly

my good-close high school mate is married
asya akak mek esah to me, has been my high school mate back at SMPW on 1996 onwards
we're the only 2 strangers that came from a different school and stepped into SMPW
since then we've become close friends.
i knew her family well especially aunty mala, her mom. been lepaking her house too
Lan and shahir were so-so. her dad, not really as he's always been at the other side of the world, working.

She's been with Adly since form 5 kot and they're still together tho i've had married with one kids now.
And on 13 Oct, they're finally married. a 10 yrs+ relationship i guess, wow
but i'm glad that it ended in a beautiful way

I hope and pray for you two to have another more years to come together
and welcome to the club!
soon, we'll be talking and exchanging info on pregnancy, who knows LOL

newlyweds

Congratulations mek esah!

Lucky no 3

THREE has been a lucky number to me

this yeal i'll be joining the Three series

This date, marks that my marriage has been on Three years now

and today, we are Three (me+hubs+HM)

"I love being married.  It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life."


To Hanna Mikaela and Amir Izwan, thanks for being part and being there for me
heart you two lots!

Aramaiteeeeey

I am so excited for this newlyweds. i dunno why. Perhaps  because it's been a while since i met her

and i  put an all out effort for attending this. Dress in line with the theme. Checked. Present for the couple. Checked. meni and pedicure. Done. trying my best to look stunning for her

the invitation cards that was received earlier. isn't it cool?

Passiod Road, Jalan Yap Kwan Seng. So it was my first time made a debut here. Never knew it was exist. or maybe i just couldn't be bothered that my time has passed? haha. lame

I saw lots of sporty cars parked outside. Erm, who's the crowds anyway?

Signed guest booked, wrote a wishes in the  book and i was seated at the F table. and there i met Murni, Faz and Ummi. The ONLY st. marian's girls that has been invited. Seriously, i have no idea of who else is coming, which only then i knew. So at least, i knew few people there. and beside Mike who's been appointed as the wedding planner. Good job dude

Waited and drank. Finally Mun & Denys arrived. She is absolutely gorgeous OK. plus the wedding gown that been designed by Syaiful bahrim. Its stunning and flawless on her

I'm impressed with the whole deco done. romantic and classy. Figure out that she has such a helpful and thoughtful friends that  helped her with all the preps. From being an MC, giving out speeches and statistics (lol. this Ken guy is really drunk, way before the event started), the wedding planner etc etc. So its more on personal touches. And so we've been greeted by the friendly MC and partner, and another speeches by their closest friends, then only the buffet is served

Food combination was not bad, and the food are tasty and scrumptious. Potato salad, nasi minyak, fish n chips, the sinful mushroom soup which  is very rich & thick, dessert and everything. Great. I'm full. Thanks

And this Rumors band just simply knew whats the best for this cocktail/reception wedding. They played a cool music, mix of Michael Buble, Jason Mraz etc. 

Ops, before that. Munirah is a mixed of Pakistani which i believed she gets it from her father. and Denys itself is a Kadazan with one son, Ethan, which they clicked together instantly. Ethan is exactly a copy-cat of Denys face. sejibik i tell u. 

so when kadazan meets, ofcoz they'll known for the air tapai. It's provided that night thou. sapa nak can order jer. as a community services announced, the effects will take some times. so do not think that you'll perfectly alright, you'll feel the kick later ya.

and so does they have this traditional dance, Sumazau dance with their own song.the title is Sayang Kinabalu. part of the lyrics was this : 

tingi2 gunung kinabalu, tinggi lagi sayang saya sama kamu. hati saya rindu 

Then it"s time for the bride & groom dance. aiya, lupa pulak what songs but its absolutely a nice songs for both of them. so sweet je tengok both couple ni on the dance floor

And now time for the rest of the guest to be at the dance floor. So it all started when the Sayang Kinabalu song been played again. most of Denys Sabahan relatives & friends slowly walking towards the dance floor. And followed by a salsa/latin song. which by this time, others are starting to join the crowds, including myself. Dah start goyang2 kaki and badan. takde partner plak to dance, knowing by hubby not so good in dancing. if layan kepala punya music : techno dia bolehla hahah. 

Before heading home, grab my self a picture with the lovely Mun, with the rest. Obviously, i can"t  keep her to myself that night as she's been wanted by everyone. It's her BIG day kan. so dapat snap few pics pun jadila. 

To Munirah & Denys : i know you guys will have so much fun together with Ethan. May you'll be shower with happiness, prosperous and surrounded with bountiful peeps around

note : links to view rest of the pics here

2011 begins

4th day of 2011. how's yours so far?

Mine went quite OK and happy. meeting up family members and beloved friends that shared the same pale otak, was always fun

and not to forget, people tried to embrace the beginning of new year by celebrating with their loved ones.

Getting married, having a new bundle of joy, started work at a new places bla bla was truly a good way to starts the 2011

I had the opportunity to witnessed Sarah & Andy's wedding at Bora Asamara, tho the noticed was sent quite last minute but since it's gonna be at night, so i'm a bit free. The daytime  weddings , was quite a few too.

Ir was my date for that night. 

Sarah and i was a schoolmate at St.Mary primary school. Most of her siblings are girl so dulu tuh teringat diorang tu macam tangga, dari tinggi ke rendah. Sarah with her 2 ponytails and her spectacles, haha so cute. Now all of them are back to NY/London (tak sure sgt) and Sarah & Andy decided to celebrate their big day with us here in KL tho they had been nikah a year ago. 

Met few of my St. Mary' s girls Hanim (preggers, 4th baby this time), Umi, Azuar (apparently is Sarah saudara), Zetty and few others that had familiar faces

Me, Ummi, Irlia and Zetty

Wawa, me, Irlia and my junior from SMS

To Sarah & Andy, thou i don't have  the chance to get to know you more closer, i wish both of you to be blessed and surrounded with bountiful loves, all the time

"Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. " 

Do you think we should banned married man to go melepak?

haha..no offense. just a thought of this issue to be raised

I know the fact that its gonne be unfair but these men sometimes tend to forget that they have someone at home waiting. Not a big fuss out of it but when they ter-forgot or ter-abuse the chance mulalah sampai lupekan anak bini dirumah

It happened with my married friends when her hubby almost everyday went out melepak with his friends. Starting from 12am til early pagi, 3-4 pagi baru balik even ada yg sampai ke subuh

syok sangat bergosip sampai lupe anak bini ye bang? Tak bolehla begitu, sian bini/anak dirumah, tunggu laki/ayah balik..bini kat umah tu bukannye patung.

Dulu, time baru ber-gf/bf nak sangat all the time berkepit ni dah ada bini lupe pulak nak balik umah ye? We're not that queen control type but be reasonable to ur wife/children la. about The wife has given a full authority for you to chill out with your friends but do not break the promises/trust la..pasni takleh kuar umah lagi padan muka.

Trust me, it happened to me too. ala  gaduh kecik2 je but the most important thing is Communication. should have give and take in married life. Married life is interesting, depends on how you sail it. And sacrifices need to be made. Jangan ingat alam umah tangga semuanya best je

Shoot shoot bang bang

macam band nye cover album

laughter is the best medicine

trying to made fun of each other

one of my fav pic, after edited

if tengok betul2, macam filem dolu2 pun ada

one of the best moment together

i edited this too :p

shoot this at Padang layang-layang at Gombak for our wedding album
a bit outdated coz time kawin on both side, hujan je
so takleh nak buat outdoor shoot
this were part of the pic that i've edited

How's marriage life?

nikah 280309

reception at ampang-my side 040409

reception at keramat- amir's 050409

The same question people been asking over and over since i am a wife. Here's a short briefed on it (at this moment)

1 - must say that it was great. awesome life to go through.
2 - as i am staying with my in laws- a bit do's and dont's applies. need to adapt with the new family members and environment. hope all goes well
3 - i am free to do anything with myhubby. i have a lifetime companion
4- when it comes to baby - of cos looking forward for it. if ade rezeki tu adelah kan
5- dah ada family, spending to be done with more careful. planning is essentials .
so budget tak lari
6- kene more sabar & tolak ansur. and most of all, communication is penting.
7- i have my sleeping partner now. tapi yang kelakarnya..it happens few times whereby amir tersiku my face/forehead and yang best skali semlm he tersiku again mynose.i was shouting at nite and say "adui sakitnye" ..and guess..i cried!!! he must have been shocked knowing that as he is tido mati *bom meletup pun belum tentu dia dgr*. end up, i am more excited nak beli katil baru yang lebih besar so that won't happen again. *i have 7 bedsheets for our wedding gifts*

overall, i must say that dah ada lifetime partner ni best. ada anak lepas ni lagila bestkan. tapi we have to be prepared mentally and physically. sacrifices need to be done here n there. besar responsibility jadi wife and mother to ur family. and the rewards are big too..insya-allah.
At this moment, i am enjoying my time with my hubby as much as we can..pray for our happiness forever . Thanks ya'll

A very short bulan madu

It's been 2 days passed from our wedding days, last weekend. Now penat masih terasa. nak buek camno..layankan jela.Nak sangat kawin..hah rasakan :)

We got a bad news about our pre-honeymoon ni..mama said it's been fully booked using Berjaya membership. However, after some miracle happened, we managed to get a room with the helped of my boss. Kena bayar pun takpela..janji ade tempat nak pegi rather than last choice is genting..again *sigh* We're off from KL about 2pm plus..and reached there about half an hour later.I'm all the way sleeping in the car..penat weh.

Weather a bit cloudy..and it's not that cold as at Genting. Not that thrilled la..hahaha. Checked in, rooms were far at the end..Dahlia block. Once entered, fuhh quite impressed with the room. We've been upgraded and got complimentary wine from the management. Exploring the room as usual before rest a while and o ut again to try all the parks- We've got free access to all parks ok- Snaps a few pictures here and there. We found a goose *or should i say a swan*..bare with us being older every year, seems can't defined the two meanings..akhakhakah

Decided, we're off to Rabbits farm - i know..just to filled our free time-playing with those rabbits, horses then we get bored. so tunggu shuttle to come another 30mins..boring seh. so we chatted with the security guy that patrolled that day. He was on 21 and this is his first job. all the way from Pakistan. But swear to u that he'd look older that his age,but he was in neat looked. a very decent & naive guy. been cheated from his agent *as usual*. Worked for 3months end up only rm200 from his salary was given. what a double sigh. but we have to leave you macha. nak balik hotel for dinner

We had dinner at one of the restaurant- too many french restaurant kat sinila- their buffet dinner was Rm45++/pax..giler!! so amik ala carte je. i took sandwich & amir too burger. the weather was slightly cold as the rains just stopped. of coz after that we're heading to the room. *wink* and don't asked me what happened to the rest of the night...lol

Next morning, foggy again. nice. it's time for breakfast. On the bed and in the room. Just another luxury treatment from the management..don't be envy yer. but the choices are limited.but that was ok. then packing for home. once checked out, we off to Botanical Garden & Japanese Tea House. It's cold up there. But..we have to climb 300m to the point. Hish. What a good exercise in the morning! Quite amazed withthe botanical garden. It's huge. It's time to meet the flora & fauna.Indeed, we've met with lots of the greenish which we dont before. Another educational thingy.A bit breathless haha. then it's drizzling. aiyo..

Now lets learn Japanese culture. But impressed with the landscape just a bit costy on certain stuffs. The cheapest treatment for their massage at the TaTami Spa was Rm440. Wtf?Certainly No-NO. Tetibe ade ternampak a bunch of ikan jepun tu..but they were very the healthy eh. Kagum sekejap. Clock shows almost 2pm. It's time to get a move. But..another 300m to go down the hill..again! and with the rains.

It ended beatifully and awesome. Eventho it's for a short while and escape but we have spent time together, preciously. Maybe the real Honeymoon will come soon

gambar seperti di dlm FB saya

Thank you

Selesai sudah wedding reception at both places. Ampang & Keramat

To those who came, we really appreciated it. For those yang kami tak sempat jumpa..harap maaf la yer. 

Pictures by our official photographer is not uploaded yet but from the unofficial..various camera, mmg banyak. Just view my FB from those who have tagged me for that.

Once dah selesai majlis ni..memang lega rasenya..Finally it's happening & over. Penatt tu jangan dicakapla..not enuff sleep, tak selera makan smua pun ada. But after all, sacrifices has to be made kan..it's our BIG day anyway. Once in a lifetime - insya-allah. Despite whatever happened that weekend, i am really thankful of my current status now. 

A really- really BIG thank you to all my friends who've made it, to all my family members and relatives..yang dari jauh or dekat. Thanks a lot!!!

Mrs Amir :)

Alhamdulillah and thanks to all family members + extended too :p..and to all frenz that supported & wished us. Thanks a million again

27 Mac- Friday
I've been on fever (mild) & flu..this is my 3rd day (blamed choc for this). Was trying hard to recovered so i can pull through tomorrow's. Overall, ok as i managed to controlled the tonsils except for the flu. When it's dawn, relatives are slowly knocking on the door. It's kecoh obviously. But it's fun. Nothing much basically as all the cooking were ordered from my aunty at Keramat. So when its about 10plus, masa untuk pakai inai. The blind guided the blind..haha.My aunty rabun but thanks to all her effort memakaikan inai di jari2 ku. But sadly, after almost 3hrs on it, the inai is not that strikes. They sad it's maybe because on my blood *ada petua mengatakan nak pakai inak kene tgk darah kite gak. so that's why some ppl pakai inai it turn out nice & red but not mine- it turnes to orangish* anyway, it's just for this solemnization, will have to try harder for the reception next week. The clock ticking..it's 4am. Gosh!! i can't sleep. well i can but those aunties kat luar tu they just chats continuously , with my mom too. Conclusion, i slept for only 2hrs before woke up at 7am.

28 mac- saturday, the day
Kak shaz, my make up artist came about 740am. Breakfast done. It took almost 2 hrs plus to made myself look gorgeous..hihi. Then it's time for us heading to the Masjid BUkit Indah. Amir's and family are there. Waited patiently.hihi. Then after the necessary ceramah done by tok kadi, its the moment for amir to melafazkan akad. yes he did it with only selafaz. Alhamdulillah. Good job sayang :) We are officially a husband & wife

Conclusion
To be frank, i am certainly in a shocked of my status currently. I am someone's wife. Please wake me up ppl :). After all we've been thru, we have come to this far. I like it coz i can hang out with my hubby all the time - need to practice of using hubby now on *wink*. I can sense that all the burden were slight gone, semua telah dihalalkan :) . I need to adjust myself on this new relationship, with extended family members, my behavior towards my hubby and the community etc. Need to start learn on cooking too. How i wish our house is ready so we can have our own time together, just the 2 of us. Well, have to pray hard for that. Moga rezeki & tuah will be on our side.

with sekali lafaz je

with his mom

myhantaran for him

my bling2

menantu vs mertua

So-called my hen's nite

Date : 21 Mac 2009
Venue : Chestnut Bistro, Ampang
Time : 730pm onwards
Remarks : Thanks to my boss for organized this ; Thanks to those ladies who turned up this despite those who made last minit cancelled (as usual) and Thanks to the rest of the guys


So called my hen's nite done by my boss, supposed to be 15gals attended but due to so many reasons..some could not make it. But the most unaccepted where few just cancelled last minute and few who don't even answered my call. Unacceptable. and for some who i have not invited for this, definitely there's a reason behind that. I would love to invite all of ya but due to some circumstances, i have to obliged.

It was simple dinner. come. eat.chit chatting. exchange cards & stories.off to Aloha. off to home.very simple
Foods was nice. on portugese meals. Thanks to Harry for making this happened. Eventho it was such a small dinner but i had fun thou. Really appreciates all of ya efforts.

Dinner finished about 1030pm, few of us heading to Aloha. There are one nice Thai band, as per my boss. Quite packed with most of Chinese. Ordered drinks. But would agreed that the band was superb. Then later Amir join.for 3-4 shots then we're heading home. Truly amazed on the traffic outside. I dunno where are all these cards heading to? KL, a city of lights & entertainment
Pictures has been update at FB (what the heck it took almost 15mins to complete?)

few of pics been posted here and not FB due to some reason..

OMG, in less than a week i will be Amir's wife !!!!

thanks guys

venue

budak kecik

ladies, THANKS !!

Sneak preview

hey ppl..

a short updates on the wedding progress

as you can see above, a collages on our wedding outfits..which to be which is for your to know it later..
tak surprise la if bagitau awal2kan...haha
amir mmg ade nampak mcm Hang Ter-lekir..haha. mmg dah lama mengidam nak pakai tengkolok tu kan..and nanti akan ada keris for him too
as for my baju nikah, u can refer to my previous post..last year on oct kot..
and three items above are part of the gifts amir gave to me beside the duit hantaran (saje buat kecik so u can't see the figure)

soorylah my post dalam ni was not really in proper and not in ready mode coz amir mmg bengong. jeles tgk me in nice outfits..

it's march now so i'm counting till the day