something for us to ponder

last nitekan hari isnin..jenuh tukar2 chanel tv takde citer yg best. lepas layan NCIs season 4 kat 8tv, layan drama kat prima, Inai mlm pengantin. aku tgk citer ni on n off je..tak follow sgt.
then there's a part where rusdi ramli (RR) and aida aris(AA) kinda arguing. dorg ni dh kawin tp cam byk org tak suke they together..the script ala2 mcm ni :

AA : oo, selama ni abg tipu dina kan?
RR : tak abg tak tipu. Dina sorg je yang abg sayang. dlm hatini ada dina sorg je. camne abg nak proofkan kat dina lagi
AA : *she gives so many unreasonable excuses-la..pompuan bile dh marahkan*
RR : kenapa dina tanak dgr ckp abg..kenapa nak dgr ckp org lain?kite bwk bincang. dlm hal ni we need to trust each other, kite yg penting bukannye org lain.
AA : dina dah tak trust kat abg lagi *then she tried to walk off*
RR : ha pegilah..bile dh jadi camni..itu yg org lain sukekan. biar dina gaduh ngan abg, so byk org leh amik kesempatan. dorg tu takde kasih syg, dats y dorg suke nak rosakkan umah tgga kite. yg kite ni ade penuh kasih syg, don't act like them!!

pastu si rusdi ramli pegila ngadu kat abah dia..then his father advised him these
"pegi pujuk dina, jgn dibiarkan dia lama2 sendiri. org pompuan ni if tgh marah, ade je bende negatif yg nak dipkkan. kang org lain dtg meracun, lagi susah"
while i was giggling after hearing this..betulla oi pompuan ni mcmtu..hhahah

so whats moral of the story kwn2? well, wats on my brain were :-

1. in marriage life, no matter what happen, kite kene dgr ckp suami (syurga bwh tapak kaki dorg) then ade problem bincang (somethg for me to workout also..haha)
2. betul kate RR. we only have each other to trust, org lain pedulikla. yang penting we and our partner loves each other, thats enuff.
3. jgn pedulik ape org lain ckp psl kite, yang penting our partner accepted us n love us, itu dah cukup. nak pk psl org,sampai mati pun tak habis pk

so renung2kan dan selamat beramal :) ~