marriage life for women now?

"im happy wt mydaughter now, but i just dun hv a feeling towards myhubby, i think i wanna ask for adivorce"

"babe, ive got a prob now.dat guy proposed me to marry him. hes nut as im married thou"

bebaru ni , ade cousin yg saje cari psl. dah kawin tp still melayan org lain. the reason is "saje je nak kenal2, make a lots of new fren"..duh!!. itu mencari nahas je namenye n as i expected, dia mmg ade problem skang.dat guy dgn bgganye pi "proposed" cousin aku ni. bunguknye..tatau ke dia dah kawin. ( as usual, women..hide her own status) n now seeking for my advise n opinions....

well, what can i say..u really create ur own problem thou. n we as a human being, takleh accept when ppl blame u instead of accepting it by look at urself on which part of u did wrong.

while im linggered around kat kedai yg jual hairclips kat klcc (aku lupe lak name kedai tu), bumped into a gf of mine yg dah lost contact..lame gak. heard dat she's married wt a lovely daughter. (aku gak belum ni ..sobsob)

borak punye borak, we decided to lepak jap kat bench. as usual, all the old grandma stories popped out & tetibe she came out wt the 1st above sentences.. i was like "what the heck was dat?ko ni biar benar. ingat kawin ni mcm couple2 ke". and she spilled put half of her marriage life story..

sometimes ni yg buat aku takut nak kawin, there is sooo many prob accured (part of it kite yg cari psl sendiri)

n i was thinking either all these woman tau tak whats the risk n dosa yg diorg akan dpt nanti? kawin cam tak nyempat2 pulak..its kinda trend ke skang ni..ikut2 org lain kawin w/out u been prepared mentally n physically?

der is just soo many example of married life infront of me..its really up to myself how to evaluate all those n try to learn from their mistakes. n hopefully aku pun tak buat bende yg sama like what they did.or the best part to saying this was...dugaan Allah ke atas hambanye ke? if its yes pun, kite kenalah redha & go thru semua tu. dats part of having a married life. n depend to us to sail our married life to the right path.

ceh, ckp cam la aku dah kawin. naahh, i was just hoping that myfuture husband (whoever he is) will together guide me to the right path, dunia & akhirat. And the most important is, to have a happy family, ever after.

~amin~